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Carmella Bing Ahhhh No thanks

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When Carmella Bing first got into the adult film industry about 17 years ago she was a firecracker. When it came to naturally busty naturally nasty performers she was the go to girl. after a few brushes with the law She came back to the game last year and is now promoting some IR content she is putting out with some guy name Supreme Bing. I for one am not going to be checking for any IR content from Carmella. Sorry Love but your best days are well past you. I wont knock anyone that does. But I wont be one. and I know what some folks might be thinking. I am body shaming. That is simply not the case. I don't have a problem with Big girls. Or women who have gotten bigger over time. Angelina Castro is a perfect example of a woman who put on some weight became a BBW but still looks good. I am not going to be checking for this scene primarily because Carmella avoided working with black men Like the fucking plague and said on the record in a 2012 interview  that she didn't d...

I Kissed a Girl and I Liked it.

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As some one who shares the company of Courtesans from time to time I have made it a policy to never kiss and tell Not without the ladies consent anyway .Some women enjoy their anonymity and I respect that.  So I dont post on the erotic review or any other sites that rate these women. The practice is a little counter intuitive to begin with. Each encounter a woman has with her clients is a Unique one so you shouldn't automatically expect the same things to happen to you that might have happened to the next man.  Case and point was my recent visit with Jenna Love. Me and Jenna have known each other for about 2 years and she is a phenomenal woman. The last time I saw her was a lot different than the first time... in a good way. This time we where a lot more passionate with each other. To be frank I had not been with a woman in quite some time so I had some pent up tension to release. I thought i was gonna go crazy on her. But when I saw her the mood was...

Sex Work may never be the same.

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If some one where to tell you two months ago that The Murder of a Black man at the hands of the police and a global pandemic would have catastrophic ramifications for the sex work industry. Most people would have told you nah. The sex work industry has never gone through a global pandemic but there has been plenty of work stoppages for health related issues in the past, and the murder of a unarmed black man certainly isn't new or unprecedented.  How each of these situations has affected the sex work industry has been unique but for some reason the marriage of these two uncommon bed fellows will leave the sex work industry in a new place. One that most fans of the sex work industry will not recognize after the dust has settled. The murder of George Floyd and the fall out afterwards created a ideological divide between socially conscious sex workers. And those who for one reason or another could not fully embrace the need to change societal norms. Specifically pertaining to matt...

Pump the breaks

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I have written about this subject before but now more than ever it needs to be addressed. People in the adult industry right now are canceling anyone who sees race or puts a focus on race in a sexual context. In the current political clement I understand why this is happening. people are using the Murder of George Floyd to attempt to snuff out all racial disparity in every corner of society. While the sentiment behind this is admirable. It is a bit misguided. I say that because it completely ignores the reality that most people in the sex work industry already realize, but now are surprisingly ignoring. Sexuality is a wide spectra in the human condition. Not only do we have different orientations. But we respond to different stimuli to reach sexual satisfaction. The sex work industry has long been a place of acceptance and tolerance for different people who got off on different things. For example LGBTQ individuals and the types of sexual stimuli that those individuals respond t...

The Term IR is not the problem

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Everyone is still reacting to the decision that Tony Rios the CEO of AVN made about the elimination of terms "IR" and "interracial" from the AVN publication and awards show. While I understand the sentiment behind the decision I believe it is an overstep and a over simplification of a problem that is far more complex than Mr. Rios has taken the time to analyse. The term interracial denotes a difference in the types of individuals whom are taking part in a sexual act. There is nothing inherently wrong with that in and of it self. It recognizes whom both individuals are. and forces you to accept the fact that they are different. While I understand why some people would see the distinction as problematic with the potential for prejudicial treatment of people of color. If you take a step back and talk to people of color. They will tell you almost to a person that they are proud of who they are as individuals. The vast majority of people I know who share my ethni...

Silence is Deadly

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The writers at Mike South normally do a pretty good job at being objective when looking at different situations. But they also do not have a problem with formulating opinions on other states of affairs  if they believe those to be unjust or wrong. They have some very good investigative journalists digging deep on issues at the very center of the adult film industry. But the collective sentiment they have on the George Floyd situation and the subsequent fall out is simply tone deaf. As Edmund Burke stated. "The Only thing necessary for the triumph of evil is that good men should do nothing". For far too often the able bodied have stood idle while atrocities transpired against individuals who where always the most vulnerable in the specific societies they resided in. Another quote appropriate for the season is the one from Martin Niemoller. "First they came for the socialists and I did speak out because I was not a socialist. Then they came for the trade unionists a...